change node socket to vector; try lock free queue.

lichao

2021-04-21 3931f83205f153f2bc7fc36d1a894cdc3f14b4db

 .gitignore

@@ -6,7 +6,8 @@
utest/utest
*.bak
gmon.out
box/bhshmqbox
box/bhshmq_center
box/help
utest/bhshmq_center
*/bhshmq_center
*/help
*/bhshmqbox
*/bhshmq_status
api/go/bhome_msg/*.pb.go