move ref count into msg meta, only 1 poinetr now.

lichao

2021-04-23 dc86ace85e437ecb8a2e728e4dce36d02bbb8a6e

 .gitignore

@@ -1,4 +1,13 @@
*.un~
build/
debug/
release/
Makefile
utest/utest
*.bak
gmon.out
*/bhshmq_center
*/help
*/bhshmqbox
*/bhshmq_status
.idea